I can not guarantee you a succesful marriage, but if you follow the advice through the remainder of this article, i can guarantee that any difficulties or problems you encounter will not be your fault.
The first thing to remember is that your wife does not belong to you, even when you are married, so you need to continue to treat her as her own person, and do not complain when she appears to have a life (that may not involve you) doing what she likes, when she likes.
The next thing to consider is the fact that your marriage may become a bit dull, so make sure you and your wife talk regularly, to think of ways to keep certain aspects of your relationship entertaining and lively.
One very important point is that you should treat your wife in the same way in which you would like to be treated, do not do anything that you would not want her to do.
Do not be too busy for her and her interests, if possible try and find a common interest between the two of you, and if your interest is cars or football, please do not assume she is stupid and does not know a thing about them.
Finally, share responcibility in the home, do not expect her to do all the work and shopping, chances are she may be just as busy, or more busy than you.
oh, and one more thing, learn to cook!
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